Hi Tammy,
That does not sound good. I hope things work out for you both.
I lost my brother a year ago to pancreatic cancer. It is an evil thing.
The problem is, you don't know you have it until it's just to late. When the symptoms first appear it is to late...it is full blown cancer. You can get tests to see if you are at "risk" but at the first sign of symptoms it is game over !! ..............So, Gentlemen, if you can, GET TESTED !!
I feel for you and I wish you all the best. I am sure I speak for all of us behind the scenes here at Fishingreminder when I say our thoughts, well wishes and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
Stay strong and I wish and hope that this troubling time passes quickly and leaves both of you happy and healthy.
Neil
itsaboat mate...Life is just a boat and then ya marry one !